| Question One - How Do I keep A
Man From Leaving Me?
Q: My last three boyfriends have
broken up with me and never looked back. I
thought my last boyfriend was my true soul mate, but he dumped me
too. I am
afraid of loving a man again, but I can't stand to live a life
without romance.
Why do men keep leaving me? How can I make a man stay?
A: Not all relationships are guaranteed to last...even if you
think they are
perfect. Rather than put yourself in a victim role by saying that
all men leave
you, consider what role you had that turned the relationship sour.
This new
perspective will shed light on the role you played that
contributed to the failed
relationship.
There is no way to make a man stay in a relationship he doesn't
want to be in.
All you can do is keep an eye on your behaviors as well as his to
recognize-and
fix-problem areas as soon as you see them. The longer you wait to
address them,
the more difficult they will be to repair.
And lastly, as long as you continue to be open to love, it will
always come into
your life.
Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of "The Complete Idiot's Guide to
Romance" and
"Desirable Men: How to Find Them." To read more, visit www.ExpertLoveAdvice.com
QUESTION TWO - Aroused by Smells
by Nancy Fagan, M.S., ExpertLoveAdvice.com
Q: During lovemaking I get turned on by smells and they don't seem
to affect my
boyfriend at all. I feel like he's missing a vital part of the
whole experience.
Is there anything I can do to increase his sensitivity?
A: Everyone has a different level of olfaction sensitivity.
Still, increasing
your husband's is definitely something you can work on. To help
you do so, try
using the following three suggestions:
Massage him with oil: The combination of massage and scented oils
heighten
arousal.
Take advantage of pheromones: Pheromones are also called 'human
sex hormones.'
They are odorless chemicals the body releases that can sexually
excite a partner
when inhaled through the nose. They are secreted through the skin
and especially
in areas known for sweating - arm pits and genitals. To only way
to get him to
breathe your pheromones is to get him close to you!
Deprive his other senses: Naturally, when one of the five senses
is blocked, it
causes the other senses to become stronger. To increase your
partner's sense of
smell, try blocking out all senses except for that one.
Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of "The Complete Idiot's Guide to
Romance" and
"Desirable Men: How to Find Them." To read more, visit www.ExpertLoveAdvice.com
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